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From
the moment of giving birth to the kids to the moment she dies or her
children meet that unfortunate fate(whichever unfortunate moment
occurs earlier), she devotes every bit/ounce of her true-self in the
service of MANkind, which here includes both men and women.
Be
it Getting up Early in the Early morning and Getting Ready quickly,
so that her kids and family could enjoy their mornings; Be it
preparing breakfast early in the morning even when she has to leave
earlier than the family; Be it helping the children in their homework
even when her body is undergoing tremendous pain and she herself
needs help in the “HOME WORK”; Be it eating the food after the
family has eaten relishly; Be it maintaining the family relations
alongside the corporate and neighborhood; Be it remembering the
indefinite list of birthdays and anniversaries and other such crucial
events that come bundled with marriage; Be it doing their bit for
society even when it doesn't leave any time for themselves, you name
anything and women are good at it or are trying their best to achieve
a niche in that. Love, Hatred, Pain, Sacrifice, Stress, Happiness,
Gloom, Tragedy and many such severe descriptors of Emotion co-exist
simultaneously in their world!!! Even such disruptors aren't able to
deter them from waking up again in the morning and live their life
for the people they care about.
Being
an eye-witness to all these situations, I feel proud and confident to
admit that women, if given a chance, would make one of the best
Managers of all times. But in a country like ours, where : the
representation of women in Parliament still needs to be ramped up;
The Groom and his family get a constipation where the bride-to-be is
a beauty with brains and earns more than her better half; The
maniacal men can't take 'NO' from a woman for their proposal, be it
marriage, Love or Rape; The men try to impose their chauvinism in
numerous possible ways by questioning the Attitude, Clothes,
Religion, Morality etc. of Women whenever they try to lift themselves
up and walk with their heads held high; the above dream seems to
be a distant one.
Why
are we so adamant upon pushing them down? Why can't we see them rise
and prosper??
It is true that women may get tempted sometimes by the glitter of those precious
jewels but the thing they really want is just that we too care for
them, just as they care for us. And I think at least we could do this
much for them. Having said so much in their praise, doesn't mean they
are the next Aamir Khan on this planet!!! Obviously, they aren't. The
major field in which they need some serious improvement is Taking
care of themselves!!! May be because they are too engrossed in
helping others, they have forgotten to take care of themselves OR
they feel that after doing so much Good for others, who would DO....,
SORRY, Even THINK bad for them?? Sorry ma'ams but you seem to be
living in some other world.
Well,
taking care doesn't mean that your sole aim is to prevent that stupid
son of a *** (named FAT) from residing on your body and assuming that
rest all would be fine!! In the present world, where Life is so fast
where Multitasking is the obvious requirement; Children seek
inspiration from you; Dangers marking their presence at each step;
Jobs we do require something extra; that would not be enough. The
situation is like you should be able to run, jump, punch and kick
asses of the ones who try to mess with you. But the situation is
quite drastic. I have friends who find it difficult to jump over a
drain while some even struggle to walk at a rapid pace. Some just
freak out at the idea of using the Stairs instead of that Lousiness
arousing LIFT.
It's
not that they can't do that but it's just that they lack motivation
to do it. It's also true that the more you force something, the more
they procrastinate it. Because as far as i believe that people keep
on waiting for some unfortunate incidents to happen with them or
around to adapt and inculcate some changes in their lives. Well, it's
better we understand beforehand and prevent that incident altogether.
To
clear some misunderstandings that might have arose after reading the
above: Me saying 'Women need to do more for being healthy, doesn't
translate to they doing Bench Presses, Pull-Ups, Dips or Chin-Ups!!!
But, of course they could, if they want, as they'll definitely feel
better after initially facing some terrible hardships. All i am
saying is they need to step-up their strength so that they excel
marvelously in all that they do and are able to make a difference to
their lives alongside the lives of people they care about. Also, by
praising women abundantly i do not mean to imply that all women are
good and right and you could trust them blindly without any
questioning. Yes, bad women do exist but i am not here to compare the
women. I just want to say to them,
Please Take Care of Yourself.
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