Thursday 28 February 2013

Sweet Little Children


                                                       
Children are closest to the ALMIGHTY
How good were those ol` days!!!! The childhood: filled with joy, excitement and absolutely No Stress, you could do anything you want: If u wanted to play you could do that Endlessly, without giving any second thoughts to it. I don't wish to deliver an answer to the Compare CHILDHOOD vs. TEENAGE, rather i wish to direct the attention towards the Most Beautiful and merciful creation of NATURE: the children.
Sweet, affectionate and little children (No need to raise your brows as I am not talking about Kate Winslet’s  little children) have the power to drive us out of any trouble on this earth by their innocence, and most importantly possess the magical power to heal our Wounds, obviously not talking about the physical ones( like cut, scar or bleeding) but the ones which leave an everlasting impact on our soft, impatient heart.



I have already mentioned this before many times but i am unable to refrain myself from mentioning it again and again: I really miss my school days, not being able to have a glimpse of the smiling faces of Cute little children each day during recess, not able to talk to them, make them laugh; all of this completely drives me out of my senses.
Recently, when my 3yr old cousin visited our home, it was one of the most joyful days of my recent life..... Though she didn't recognized me as she was visiting us after some time, but still by the time she left, i was her good friend....
It`s not only about me, but the entire humanity across the globe. Kids have the supernatural power of driving the sadist out of our soul. Most importantly, they are the purest and most serene representative of the MANKIND on earth, free from any desires; symbols of joy; harbingers of change, spreading the Smile wherever they reach.
But, Are they really treated like that??? Do you have any doubt this???? Absolutely NOT, they are far from being treated like that...  Just to sight a small example : Majority of the workers to inflate the tires of your vehicle, fix the puncture or put the chain on the saddle are these dilapidated and uncared for kids, the lives of whom would take decades to be put back again on the Saddle of LIFE. Apart from these, the abuse and brutal beating and thrashing of such kids is a common observation everywhere. Even when WE are at some place having FUN n Food with our friends, and these Arrive. We behave as if they are dogs and need to be shooed away with utmost vigour ....... 

When visiting some far, isolated places you remove your goggles, put off your helmet, check your hairs in the rear view mirror and step down from your bike: numerous innocent eyes set glued down to your face, watching your maneuver ... hoping to see if you are going to do something for them. I agree, we don't and we can't just provide solution to their each of the numerous problems. But at least, we can return them a smile back which would definitely keep them energized for that entire day. Well, all of this might be having a tinge of preach-effect of some world-wide Saint or something of that sort. But, if you love kids, can give some time from your competition to fulfill your aspirations and think in this regard, you would definitely find much more than stated.

You go to any party, find yourself isolated, have no-one to enjoy with:  TRY this ->Look for a kid, try playing with him (obviously, in a friendly manner. Do mention your name and family to his/ her MOM to avoid any hindrance in your play), and guess what......................................
You would not feel like going home and would realize: that was one of the best days of your life....
Hey, all Brothers and ........... !!!! (I hate saying that word!!!)
 KEEP Smiling and keep  LOVING ... KIDS!!!

Thursday 14 February 2013

Are Women really EMPOWERED ???

            
The past few months have indeed portrayed a larger than life picture of WOMEN, which in turn has been unable to move down the throat of many across the nation. To them i would like to put some simple, soft but tingling questions, which would clarify their perception.


If the women are really empowered, then:
WHY does a girl child finds it a challenge to enter this beautiful world?? Why does she is expected to know/ learn the household work, even when she is good at something else?? Why is she a burden on her parents` shoulder which can only be released by marrying her??? Why does rumours start floating in the air, when she doesn't get married early in her life, while the men remain young forever, even when they grow old at a faster rate??? Why does she has to maintain her beauty and charm throughout her lives for being noticed by others??? Why does she has to be beautiful for a marriage while the men just have to be wealthy??? Why does  her family readily agrees / has to agree to the demands to HIS family??? Why is she the recipient of all abuses and taunting, when she wakes-up late in the morning OR why is she only, expected to wake -up early in the morning, while we need to have at-least 8-hour sleep for the normal and healthy execution of our body and life. Why do we feel awkward to be the pillion rider, when she rides the bike??? Why does her height, age and income has to be less than her husband???? Why is she the one to be blamed , if the children are spoilt and men being boasted about, if the children are genius??? Why does she needs to walk with care on streets while the men with a carefree attitude can roam about anywhere and everywhere??? Why do boys being shirtless are being encouraged and talked about everywhere, while she being sleeveless makes all the brows against herself, being called shameless, being abused and much more....and is being considered as if not a human??

Let Them enjoy freedom too!!!
Well, to all those who feel irritated when the word "WOMEN EMPOWERMENT" catches their sight. Try to figure out the reason beneath all the above and then re-think about your views. Numerous Laws would keep on being introduced, ratified and dumped again. That would not make much of the difference but once our perception regarding women, deep within our hearts is modified, there would be no more need to discuss all these...!!!!